<?xml version="1.0" encoding="iso-8859-1"?>
<rss version="2.0">
  <channel>
    <title>The Musings of a Red Dalek</title>
    <link>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/</link>
    <description>My personal weblog with the usual stereotypical posts about life, the news, politics and technology. But I do try to make it fun too!</description>
    <language>en-gb</language>           
    <generator>Nucleus CMS v3.64</generator>
    <copyright>© Dominic Self 2004-2010</copyright>             
    <category>Weblog</category>
    <docs>http://backend.userland.com/rss</docs>
    <image>
      <url>http://dominicself.co.uk/images/graphics/reddalek.gif</url>
      <title>The Musings of a Red Dalek</title>
      <link>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/</link>
    </image>
    <item>
 <title><![CDATA[Comin' home again]]></title>
 <link>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2013/05/comin--home-again</link>
 <guid>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2013/05/comin--home-again</guid>
<description><![CDATA[And to think that at least two people I read are now blogging 'every day in May'. It's now May bank holiday and I still have to write about Easter, when Cat and Josh stayed over at The House of The <del>Selves</del> Selfs and Cat masterminded an incredible Sunday roast.<br />
<br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130504-easter.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Easter Sunday</div> </div> </div><br />
<br />
But my excuse for this laxness is my shuttling between London and Chicago for work, which (I am fairly sure) concludes with a final trip next week. There's something rather nice about being in a city as a non-tourist, even though you see much less of all the touristy things, and obviously most residents don't spend their nights in a downtown hotel room. So instead of impressive skyscrapers and Lake Michigan and all of that, I'll illustrate Chicago with their elevated metro system - the L (get it?) - which is both Not As Good As The Underground (obviously) and pretty impressive in its own right:<br />
<br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130504-loop.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Grand skyscrapers are all very cool, but this is the L</div> </div> </div><br />
<br />
Oh, and obviously the fact that on my first visit I met up with Jamie!<br />
<br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130504-jamie.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Jamie! Pizza!</div> </div> </div><br />
<br />
I actually had my first trip delayed by a day in order to go see <i>The Book of Mormon</i>, which is a strange thing to bring up in an email thread but well worth holding out for. This was my very belated Christmas present delivery to Cat and Josh, and it was - basically - super awesome. Biting and funny but with a surprisingly warm and feelgood ending, and songs that I've been listening to slightly too often ever since.<br />
<br />
Also in April: a family afternoon on Knettishall Heath (who knew it had a silent K?) with Julie, Kieron and Daisy, a visit from Daryl with the requisite Indian takeaway, and this blog's birthday <:o) At 9 years old, this means it's reached the next level of <a href="http://www.nncc.org/Child.Dev/ages.stages.9y.11y.html">child development</a>:<br />
<br />
<i>Children of this age develop a sense of self and find it important to gain social acceptance and experience achievement. Friends become increasingly important. Secret codes, shared word meanings and made up languages, passwords and elaborate rituals are important ways to strengthen the bonds of friendship. Close friends are almost always of the same sex, although children in this age group are usually increasingly interested in peers of the opposite sex. <br />
<br />
Be prepared to use all your "patience" skills if caring for children this age, as they tend to think that they do not need any adult care or supervision. Yet, when they are left to care for themselves, they are lonely, unhappy, and sometimes frightened.</i><br />
<br />
Secret codes and elaborate rituals, eh?<br />
<br />
Pop pop.]]></description>
 <category>General</category>
<comments>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2013/05/comin--home-again#c</comments>
 <pubDate>Sat, 4 May 2013 15:11:02 +0200</pubDate>
</item><item>
 <title><![CDATA[People on Planes]]></title>
 <link>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2013/04/people-on-planes</link>
 <guid>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2013/04/people-on-planes</guid>
<description><![CDATA[When flying alone, who you end up sitting next to on a plane can be critical for a pleasant 'trapped in a metal box' experience. I shudder to recall the guy next to me on one flight who decided to watch a film about a man trapped under some rocks slowly cutting his own limbs off, thus setting off my squeamishness so much so that I ended up wrapping part of my top around my head in a makeshift vision-obstructing headscarf. I probably looked odd, but then again, he should have stuck with <i>Tangled</i> like all right-thinking people.<br />
<br />
Anyway, in the last few weeks I've had a number of aeroplane companions. The woman with the toddler kept apologising for his existence, even though he did nothing much beyond smiling, repeating 'aeroplane' in Bosnian and lending me his Elmo. (In return I showed him my Kindle, which caused some confusion, even when his mother repeatedly explained it was a 'book'. For some reason this made me feel slightly guilty.) It also helped that he was incredibly cute, while his mum came out with some unintentionally prescient work-related comments to which I had to nod and think "pretty sure there's a meeting about that" to myself.<br />
<br />
Before that, there was the newly-wed couple of conservative Christians from... I want to say Minneapolis. Somewhere beginning with M. And at this juncture, I want to stress that they were so incredibly deeply lovely that I'm kinda sorry I'll never see them again. Still, we managed to pack in just about every clichéd socio-economic-political-linguistic conversation you could think of into that one flight, much to the amusement of the cabin staff. We did the guns they own, the god they worship and the government they don't. We did Hobbes, Locke, gay marriage and Nigel Farage. Abortion? Check. Death penalty? Covered. Why people say "could care less" instead of "couldn't care less" - they actually agreed with me on this one. Best plane debate ever.<br />
<br />
And before that, there was no-one. I don't mean that in a "creation of the world in seven days" sense, just that half of the seats on the plane were empty. Which was somewhat troubling, because I thought that wasn't really supposed to happen anymore. Especially when you're flying over the Atlantic, for goodness sake. It just seems horribly wasteful, and I feel that unused plane seats should be given up to a good cause - filling them up with tea bags, perhaps, because it is still sadly difficult to get a decent cup of tea to avert the mid-afternoon office slump.<br />
<br />
<em>This post brought to you by 'Yes, I'm still in Chicago and still too lazy to write a proper blog'. Proper updates to follow. Or maybe I really will get around to writing about metro systems. Because the L is rather cool, you know.</em><br />
<br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130424-100_7855.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Don't yield, dammit, just stop!</div> </div> </div><br />
<br />
]]></description>
 <category>General</category>
<comments>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2013/04/people-on-planes#c</comments>
 <pubDate>Wed, 24 Apr 2013 04:52:25 +0200</pubDate>
</item><item>
 <title><![CDATA[The Problem With Grids]]></title>
 <link>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2013/04/the-problem-with-grids</link>
 <guid>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2013/04/the-problem-with-grids</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Grid cities seem amazing. In a tangled and historic mess of London's roads, each and every road basically requires special knowledge - there aren't general rules you can learn to help you figure it out. But wake up tomorrow in New York or Chicago, and you immediately know that a street's a street, a block's a block and the rest is just a matter of counting. "Oh, check out the sandwich shop on Little Britsmead, just off Mainway Avenue" is useless without a map. "Oh, check out the sandwich shop on 7th and 9th" is easy.<br />
<br />
But here's the problem: while it's much easier to know where to walk, the actual experience of walking there is painful. I like to listen to music, walk and think. But in a grid, I'm forced to stop every minute to cross a road. And not a little road you can hip across with a quick glance - suddenly, every crossing point is an intersection. Just when you build up some momentum you're forced to stop and wait for lights... it's sorta like walking with a toddler. The most frustrating moment is when some lowly ambler, with a walking pace so pitiful it hurts, keeps catching up with you at each corner as you wait for the flood of cars to part.<br />
<br />
So give me a medieval maze over this enlightened town planning. Its chaos holds a hidden charm.<br />
<br />
<em>This post brought to you by 'Yes, I'm back in Chicago'. Proper updates to follow. Or maybe I'll write about metro systems.</em>]]></description>
 <category>General</category>
<comments>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2013/04/the-problem-with-grids#c</comments>
 <pubDate>Tue, 23 Apr 2013 05:07:11 +0200</pubDate>
</item><item>
 <title><![CDATA[Picture this]]></title>
 <link>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2013/03/picture-this</link>
 <guid>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2013/03/picture-this</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I went on holiday  <img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/nucleus/plugins/emoticons/icon_smile.gif" alt="" /> <br />
<br />
I started out not far from home at all - in the Corrib, in fact.<br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130329-easter1.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Dad, Josh and Lucy</div> </div> </div><br />
<br />
Then headed down south, just a little...<br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130329-easter2.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Abbi and Lou</div> </div> </div><br />
<br />
...before winding up in Gloucester, where the pace of life was a little slower...<br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130329-easter3.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Gloucester</div> </div> </div><br />
<br />
...and my two lovely hosts made me feel very welcome indeed.<br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130329-easter4.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Andy and Flo</div> </div> </div><br />
<br />
Then on to Wales!<br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130329-easter5.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Josie</div> </div> </div><br />
<br />
Which was half luscious spring<br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130329-easter6.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Bewts-y-coed</div> </div> </div><br />
<br />
and half snowy winter, just slightly higher up the mountains.<br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130329-easter7.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Slightly higher up Bewts-y-coed</div> </div> </div><br />
<br />
And finally, after some years, returned to good old Cofton Hackett<br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130329-easter8.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Me and Lou</div> </div> </div><br />
<br />
and had plenty of drinks in the Oak Tree, catching up.<br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130329-easter9.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">The Oak Tree!</div> </div> </div><br />
<br />
(Also this month! Abbi hosted a wonderful dinner party, Sophie popped up briefly in London, Caroline and Louise threw the most well-catered flat warming party I've ever seen and <a href="https://www.facebook.com/MotherMajesty">Mother Majesty</a> aced another gig.)]]></description>
 <category>General</category>
<comments>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2013/03/picture-this#c</comments>
 <pubDate>Fri, 29 Mar 2013 18:41:22 +0100</pubDate>
</item><item>
 <title><![CDATA[I Am Europe(ish)]]></title>
 <link>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2013/02/i-am-europeish</link>
 <guid>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2013/02/i-am-europeish</guid>
<description><![CDATA[<div class="imageright"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130224-chris.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Me and Chris</div> </div> </div>One of the nice things about working for an international company is a valuable expansion to the worldwide network of sofas to crash on. Last weekend Chris from the Berlin office took advantage of ours, and we ended up on a cultural journey I like to call 'From <a href="http://www.royalacademy.org.uk/exhibitions/manet/">Manet</a> to M&M World' which also included a strange night out in Angel to see The Urban Voodoo Machine, a bloke with an awful mockney accent and a 'reverse strip'. (Imagine what you think that means, and you've probably got it.) <br />
<br />
I also had the dubious pleasure of introducing a German to First Capital Connect during the morning rush hour, which is a bit like flying unprepared celebrities out to the middle of famines for Comic Relief. By the time we had crammed ourselves into the fake compartments at the back, with the door that doesn't open and the emergency ladder made of wood, his eyes were filled with pity, and I'm half-hoping for a €5 a month donation so that the villagers of Highbury might one day dig our own railway line.<br />
 <br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130224-tablefootball.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">The final score pretty much reflected a real world game</div> </div> </div><br />
<br />
In other news, the Book Club I nerdishly co-founded at work had its first successful gathering, reminding me why being in a book club is (a) awesome; and (b) clearly better than belonging to the rival FIFA gaming association. <br />
<br />
On Friday Joshua turned 24, so we threw a retirement party where I got the song 'I Am Europe' firmly stuck in my head. Not even the music of <i>Carmen</i> could dislodge it yesterday, magnificent as it was, though the fact I can now <i>compare operas I've seen at the Royal Albert Hall recently</i> with a straight face should be some sort of cause for alarm. And then last night I went back to <i>News Revue</i> with a twist, for the latest run was directed by Kat, and very funny it was too.<br />
<br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130224-newsrevue.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Speechley, Katie and Oliver: a lovely random gathering!</div> </div> </div>]]></description>
 <category>General</category>
<comments>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2013/02/i-am-europeish#c</comments>
 <pubDate>Sun, 24 Feb 2013 19:09:27 +0100</pubDate>
</item><item>
 <title><![CDATA[Julie, a shiny new laptop, and some ramblings thereof]]></title>
 <link>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2013/02/julie-a-shiny-new-laptop-and-some-ramblings-thereof</link>
 <guid>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2013/02/julie-a-shiny-new-laptop-and-some-ramblings-thereof</guid>
<description><![CDATA[<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130210-julie1.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Dancing</div> </div> </div><br />
<br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130210-julie3.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Laughing at dancing</div> </div> </div><br />
<br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130210-julie2.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Pool wipeout</div> </div> </div><br />
<br />
Last weekend my cousin Julie visited, for the first time in a <a href="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2010/12/dominic-s-big-review-of-2010">couple of years</a>, so we made the most of it with Cat and Josh in various drunken, dancey escapes, plus a trip to the <a href="http://www.museumofchildhood.org.uk/">Museum of Childhood</a> with Katie. Probably the coolest thing in there is a giant-sized toy theatre, which you look at and think "oh wow, I wish I had been the child of whichever nineteenth century Count owned this" along with "but then, it was probably the ultimate case of playing with something once and then leaving it to clutter the front room" and "oooh - are those the little Fisher Price people we had in a toy aeroplane?". (They were. I never realised how much those guys got around.)<br />
<br />
This weekend it's been more about grown-up toys, and my swanky new laptop \ tablet convertible <a href="http://www.pcpro.co.uk/reviews/laptops/379243/dell-xps-12">thingy</a>. It's rather beautiful and exciting, especially considering that I don't upgrade very often, and my last laptop (much as I love it so) was definitely due its retirement. I enjoy how obvious touch screens are, now that we have them, so that even when doing 'serious stuff' (like, y'know, writing blogs and stuff) in desktop mode with a keyboard and mouse, it still feels natural to swipe at the screen at the same time. Like we've been doing it forever. At the same time, I do realise how increasingly odd and out of touch I am with everyone else, simply as a result of accumulated habits. It took about a day to get used to the initially disorientating Windows 8 - but I've used every consumer edition of Windows since 3.11 (even Windows Me) and, unlike lots of people, I'm happy here. It feels like home. But it's unlikely that any younger generation - growing up on smartphones first and beige desktops never - will ever feel the same.<br />
<br />
And while we're in the mood for vague nostalgia, one thing that makes me nervous about any new indulgent consumer purchase is that extra twinge of fear and loathing for the outside world which comes with it. Can you see it too obviously through the window? Will someone break it and steal it? How useful will the ability to track it remotely actually be, and isn't it a little bit weird that 'letting law enforcement authorities know' is now considered a box-ticking afterthought while our insurance \ geo-tracking \ phone network companies can sort things out for us? <br />
<br />
And for every advance in consumer electronics - every high-speed data network, always-on social communication and beautiful interfaces - are we creating a gap between our experiences of these things and more public spirited endeavours (schools, hospitals and the like) which will be hard to fulfil? <br />
<br />
Probably not. After all, the heart of great healthcare, and great teaching, is always going to be the personal dedication and skill of the individuals delivering it. But there is real value to be gained if our public institutions can keep pace with change as strongly as our entertainment or communication industries drive them. It's not just about convenience - being able to book blood donations, find a doctor, renew an Oyster card or deliver homework online - great as all this stuff is. It's also about making sure that our public services don't get treated as historical artefacts, but remain relevant to people and their lives today.<br />
<br />
(<b>Things I forgot to mention after getting carried away with all of that</b>: Lincoln! I saw Lincoln with Josh this week, and rather enjoyed it, being a complete sucker for dramatic scenes in Congress. Honestly, they're even more fun than courtroom drama. Unfortunately the era of American history I studied began with Reconstruction, so I am unable to comment on whether the quasi-deification of Lincoln is quite fair. Also, last night I played Munchkin in a pub on the occasion of Kat's birthday. Happy birthday Kat.)]]></description>
 <category>General</category>
<comments>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2013/02/julie-a-shiny-new-laptop-and-some-ramblings-thereof#c</comments>
 <pubDate>Sun, 10 Feb 2013 18:21:10 +0100</pubDate>
</item><item>
 <title><![CDATA[January Coolness]]></title>
 <link>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2013/01/january-coolness</link>
 <guid>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2013/01/january-coolness</guid>
<description><![CDATA[<div class="imageright"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130122-genericsmall.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Generic Sitcom</div> </div> </div>2013 kicked off in fine style at the Mile End sister-flat, on one of those nice occasions when bringing different friendship groups together actually works (even if one of the photos does look like the cover of a low-rent sitcom).<br />
<br />
One particular highlight: a barbershop rendering of Puff the Magic Dragon, video evidence of which abounds on Facebook. (I'm not going to show you that, though, instead I'm going to show you an actually rather nice photo of me, Simon and Josh. Less nice photos = also on Facebook.)<br />
<br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130122-nye.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">And here's an actually rather nice photo</div> </div> </div><br />
<br />
So far in January I have also: seen <i>Arabian Nights</i> at the Tricycle, celebrated the launch of Ben's <a href="http://www.cojarecords.com/">Coja Records</a> label in Dalston, been charmed by a board game called <a href="http://boardgamegeek.com/boardgame/36218/dominion">Dominion</a> (average 7.92 out of 10 at BoardGameGeek - and they're a discerning crowd), fought a tooth-and-nail snowball fight across London Bridge and, yes, <b>signed a real life tenancy agreement</b>*.<br />
<br />
(*<i>Q: But Dominic? I swear you moved out ages ago? What gives?</i>"<br />
A: Sometimes bureaucracy is slow. Especially if you do everything backwards and complete the 'moving in' bit before the 'telling the landlord' part.)<br />
<br />
You might have thought that discussing crowd-sourced board game ratings was the limit for this blog, but no - there's more. Last weekend was, in fact, particularly glorious for the stereotyping of me: on Saturday I went with Oliver and Abi to Cambridge for tea and cakes with Professor Mandler, plus Chinese and a spot of book shopping. (What's the ideal accompaniment to the early works of Rousseau? Why, the later works of Rousseau!) And then yesterday Simon, Ellie, Mark and I explored the Wellcome Collection's exhibition on Death (a cheery subject not improved by the Victorian anti-masturbation devices in the other room), waited around on cold and snowy platforms for a steam train (totally worth it) and saw the 1928 silent film <a href="http://diamondgeezer.blogspot.co.uk/2013_01_01_archive.html#72327759462108150"><i>Underground</i></a> (link to Diamond Geezer, because he did it first). <br />
<br />
In case you were wondering, yes, it's set on the Tube.<br />
<br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20130122-trainingday.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Professor Abernethy's Training Day</div> </div> </div>]]></description>
 <category>General</category>
<comments>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2013/01/january-coolness#c</comments>
 <pubDate>Tue, 22 Jan 2013 23:05:23 +0100</pubDate>
</item><item>
 <title><![CDATA[Dominic's Big Review of 2012]]></title>
 <link>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2012/12/dominic-s-big-review-of-2012</link>
 <guid>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2012/12/dominic-s-big-review-of-2012</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Here we go again: my year, month by month, following the usual Herculean attempt to reconstruct what (and when) on earth actually happened from tweets, photos and even the occasional blog post...<br />
<br />
<b>January</b><br />
2012 kicked off at Speechley's housesitting party, watching the fireworks and gorging on Indian takeaway before some ill-advised face painting. In January I saw <i>News Revue</i> for the upteempth time - mental note, it's time to go back! - as well as <i>The Iron Lady</i> at the Lexi and <i>The Lion King</i> in Warwick's student cinema (a surprisingly emotional evening). I also fulfilled a life ambition I didn't even realise I had by spending an evening drinking in Parliament's bars, had a fun day out in Greenwich and made a fulsome and enthusiastic start on Code Academy... which <i>mostly</i> held for the rest of the year...<br />
<br />
<b>February</b><br />
Here's a memorable moment from February: standing outside Grace's house in the cold, script and camera in hand, asking Charlotte to "walk more cheerily" before Paul came out to (a) find out what the hell we were doing and (b) put us all to shame with his acting talents. And talking of acting talents, we also saw Tommy Wiseau in person at a showing of <i>The Room</i>, which I enjoyed almost as much as Peter Capaldi in <i>The Ladykillers</i>. This month there was also a tumultuous few days where I wondered if I'd end up in court (I didn't), I ate more than I ever thought possible at Rodizio Rico, and at work we packed up all of our stuff into boxes and moved to (drumroll) a bigger office with (drumroll x2) bigger desks and (drumroll x3) the river!<br />
<br />
<b>March</b><br />
In March I spent a day hunting giant eggs around London with Abbi, saw <i>Aida</i> at the Albert Hall and visited Cambridge with Oliver for Bill and Sharon's wedding. It's an odd experience, watching people your own age getting married, even ceremonially destroying a Hawaiian shirt to mark the occasion. Thankfully there was no such talk when Josh, Robert and I spent a lazy afternoon in the William IV beer garden, nor with Oliver drinking sangria in Camden or over very many chips in The Banker with Matt, Caroline and Laura. Still young.<br />
<br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20121231-1.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Beer in Berlin</div> </div> </div><b>April</b><br />
Berlin! I finally made it to that wonderful city, and did all the things tourists are supposed to do: buy lots of Ampelmann souvenirs, eat lots of currywurst, and go see lots of friendly faces from the Groupon office (this last one is maybe just me). Later that month I also visited Tash in Manchester before her first year was out - that moment of mutual relief when you step off a train and find each other both struggling with hangovers - and was a contestant on <i>Deal or No Deal</i>. No, not the awful Noel Edmonds version, but a spectacular reimagining in my living room. As you do.<br />
<br />
<b>May</b><br />
Boo: Boris won, again, in a depressing re-run of 4 years ago. In happier news, we gained a cat from the Mayhew, the indomitable Lyra, and there were a string of good things to watch: <i>Dark Shadows</i> with Abbi, Paul and Karen, <i>The Dictator</i> and (one of the highlights of the year) <i>A Slow Air</i> at the Tricycle. Pretty sure Katie also managed to share her frozen yoghurt obsession this month, too.<br />
<br />
<div class="imageright"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20121231-2.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Emma June Event</div> </div> </div><b>June</b><br />
This is my seventh year of doing such an obsessive review of the year, and good old summery June is a reliable peak. Parties and gatherings both big and small: from a delicious dinner at Amy's followed by a disastrous Mario Kart performance, to that Camden night which ended in loud arguments about canyons and mysterious missing underwear, to Paul's birthday drinks, Emily's birthday party and Jubilation: a genuinely unironic Jubilee party which culminated in Twister. Plus trips to Cambridge, for Puntcon and the Emma June Event! And Richard Herring and Francesca Martinez at the Tricycle. And my birthday, where I fell deeply in love with my gorgeous Kindle. And <i>Men In Black III</i>! And starting <i>Dollhouse</i> with Katie! But all of this is small beer compared to the real peaks and troughs of June. The bad stuff was bad, although I can't imagine a better family to face it all with. The good started on the very last day of June, when months of flat-hunting came to an end and I actually moved out...<br />
<br />
<b>July</b><br />
So, yes, a new home! And for a month it was home to just me and Cat: it seems a long time ago now, but I remember drinking lots of wine, eating my first Cat Hurley roast, and getting absolutely soaked during an exploratory visit to the ecology centre. (How many people can say they have a local ecology centre, eh?) We also sat around the fire on the roof of the Mile End sister-flat, and had an amazing time at Josh's aunt's pool party. Also in July: I accidentally saw Bill Oddie sing, we inexplicably had a big pub quiz at work, I moved on to a new job, The Dark Knight Rose, I went back to QPCS and pretended to know anything about personal statements and - oh, yes - the Olympics began! Which meant two things: the big 'working from home' experiment, and my first trip to the Olympic Park to see basketball.<br />
<br />
<b>August</b><br />
And what an awesome Olympics summer it was: in July I went back back for handball and then Paralympic swimming. In the midst of this, Josh made the flat complete by moving in, so we threw a big flat-warming party to celebrate. In August I also had a chance to finally meet two long heard-about people when they visited the UK: Abbi's dad, over an excellent burger night, and Adam Lee of <a href="http://bigthink.com/blogs/daylight-atheism">Daylight Atheism</a> fame. And I also had another great evening with the winner of last year's 'I finally get to meet you!' award, Henry.<br />
<br />
<b>September</b><br />
The highlight of September was my long-awaited holiday to Tuscany with Grace, Oliver and Abi, where we stayed in a stunningly gorgeous villa overlooking the town of Scandicci. From there we divided our days into the cultural and productive, i.e. taking the tram to Florence to see things, and the relaxingly lazy: playing cards, lying in the hot tub and drinking nice wine and not-nice witches' brew. Back in the UK, my final event at the Olympic Park was well worth the wait, finally taking me inside the Athletics stadium. This month I also enjoyed a genuinely awesome trip to Thorpe Park with Tash and Katie, seeing Andrew from uni again after a long absence, Alix and Rosie's cocktail night, a second wedding in Cambridge of the year - congrats, Bill and Katie! - the London Transport museum (always amazing), Abbi's curry night and a nostalgic evening in our old post-work pub, the Railway. (I say old: writing this review has made me realise it had only been a mere seven months.)<br />
<br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20121231-3.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Tuscany</div> </div> </div><br />
<br />
<b>October</b><br />
In October we took living together to the next level with our first official Flat Day Out, consisting of the very best things in our lives: a fry-up, Science, cheese, wine, hot chocolate and <i>Spaced</i>. I also saw <i>Cabaret</i>, <i>King Lear</i> and <i>Looper</i>, went in-character as Boris to our work Halloween party, caused local controversy of the Highbury-sort, was genuinely moved by the finale to <i>The Thick Of It</i>, went alternative in Coventry and enjoyed open mike comedy with Josh. Even Soviet Space Bat. <br />
<br />
<b>November</b><br />
To everyone's great relief - but no real surprise, if you read Nate Silver - we watched Obama win a second term in November. Josh stole a giant purple balloon from a <i>Twin Atlantic</i> gig, a decorative addition to the flat which has survived the rest of the year remarkably well, and we were both a little baffled by the point of <i>The Master</i>. There was also Ra Ra Retro's Christmassy party late in the month - on a boat, no less - a music+film evening with Abbi and <i>Frightened Rabbit</i> and, on a different note, Grace and I parted ways. Which I realise I neglected to mention on this blog earlier but, as you can see from above, we'd had some great times in 2012. Though only about a third of Buffy  <img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/nucleus/plugins/emoticons/icon_wink.gif" alt="" /> <br />
<br />
<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20121231-4.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Ending 2012 with the greatest flatmates ever</div> </div> </div><b>December</b><br />
And finally, a tumultuous year comes to a busy conclusion: Simon's lovely Christmas gathering in Cambridge, a rather eventful work party, <i>The Hobbit</i> plus a succession of unexpected but really nice reunions: a mini-gathering of Caius historians with Sam and Jerome, coffee with Alice, and two evenings of wine, laughter and silly hats by the Christmas tree with Sanna and Josh. Emily and I enjoyed Kat's crazed production of <i>Punch and Judy</i> - performed by violent human beings rather than puppets - while I was unexpectedly charmed by the rather more sedate <i>Meet Me In St Louis</i> at the Lexi. At Secret Vegetarian Festive Dinner 5, Abbi and I could proudly high-five for making it five years running, and even older traditions were kept as alive as ever as I rejoined the family home over Christmas for the usual stockings, bubbly, Christmas dinner, argumentative family quizzes, Monopoly and a Boxing Day trek across Hampstead Heath.<br />
<br />
Here's to 2013!]]></description>
 <category>General</category>
<comments>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2012/12/dominic-s-big-review-of-2012#c</comments>
 <pubDate>Mon, 31 Dec 2012 15:54:31 +0100</pubDate>
</item><item>
 <title><![CDATA[2012: My Year In Books]]></title>
 <link>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2012/12/2012-my-year-in-books</link>
 <guid>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2012/12/2012-my-year-in-books</guid>
<description><![CDATA[  Thanks to beauty of Goodreads, here's what I've read in 2012:<br />
<br />
<script src="http://www.goodreads.com/review/grid_widget/5636082.2012%20Books%20on%20Goodreads?cover_size=small&hide_link=true&hide_title=true&num_books=26&order=a&shelf=2012&sort=date_started&widget_id=1356815439" type="text/javascript" charset="utf-8"></script><br />
<br />
I immensely enjoyed reading <i>The Remains of the Day</i> - my first book of 2012 - but regard it even more highly now, as both the themes and Ishiguro's beautiful writing style have stuck with me throughout the year. <i>Coraline</i> and <i>The Metamorphosis</i> were both short, creepy and chilling, but some of the longer novels I've read this year were disappointing, especially when compared to other works by the same authors. <i>The Time Machine</i> isn't as good as <i>The First Men In The Moon</i>, despite being more famous, and <i>The Magic Toyshop</i> felt like it was written before Carter really got into her stride. <br />
<br />
<br />
The big exception to this in 2012 was <i>Do Androids Dream Of Electric Sheep?</i> - easily the best thing I've read by Philip K Dick, whose book <i>VALIS</i> (think 'William Blake in space') still makes me shudder to think about. I was also a fan of <i>Frankenstein</i> - more so than I expected - while PG Wodehouse remains a reliable delight if you need cheering up (which particular Jeeves novel I happened to pick off a virtual shelf doesn't seem to really matter much). Special mentions also go to <i>The Hunger Games</i> trilogy, which I am not ashamed to say I wolfed down with great pleasure, Zadie Smith's <i>NW</i> - because there's something special about the one writer who most conjures up real feelings of home.<br />
<br />
Non-fiction wise, the stand-out book was clearly Ben Goldacre's <i>Bad Pharma</i>. I am deeply in awe of this man, and his devastating critique of modern medicine is so much more compelling for providing straightforward, inexpensive and entirely achievable remedies. If nothing else, this is a brilliant demonstration of how to make a sustained evidence-based argument, and I hope Ben has more campaigning success in 2013.<br />
<br />
<b><i>Go on, give me something else to read...</i></b><br />
<br />
If you want a tedious dawdle around banal philosophy, followed by some actually-rather-gripping boy vs. tiger action... read <i>The Life Of Pi</i>. (Or go see the film, I guess.)<br />
<br />
If you want to learn a lot about whales... read <i>Moby Dick</i>.<br />
<br />
If you have a lot of time to spare and are insatiably interested in eighteenth century political theory... read <i>The Spirit of the Laws</i>. (Or go see the film. Apparently they've added a love interest.)<br />
<br />
If you're planning a 70s-themed sex party... read <i>The Dice Man</i>.<br />
<br />
If you're a proud Tube nerd... read <i>Underground, Overground</i>.]]></description>
 <category>Entertainment &amp; Media</category>
<comments>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2012/12/2012-my-year-in-books#c</comments>
 <pubDate>Sat, 29 Dec 2012 23:20:31 +0100</pubDate>
</item><item>
 <title><![CDATA[Christmas Cheer and 2012 Resolutions Update]]></title>
 <link>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2012/12/christmas-cheer-and-2012-resolutions-update</link>
 <guid>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2012/12/christmas-cheer-and-2012-resolutions-update</guid>
<description><![CDATA[<div class="imageleft"> <div class="image"><img src="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/media/1/20121216-tree.jpg" alt="image"/><div class="imagecaption">Tree, topped by pig</div> </div> </div>It's Christmas! Well, close enough - it's 'December' anyway - which means there's even less time to do everything than the the other 11 months. For some reason, and I blame woefully inadequate photographic equipment and a stubborn refusal to use Instagram filters, our very beautiful Christmas tree doesn't quite do itself justice in photos. So you can just believe me when I say that it is, indeed, beautiful.<br />
<br />
In the last few weeks there's been the <a href="http://wherethewildthingsare14.wordpress.com/2012/12/13/its-beginning-to-look-a-lot-like-xmas/">Ra Ra Retro Christmas Party</a> (on a boat!), Simon's Christmas party in Cambridge (with plentiful parlour games!), Groupon's Christmas party (with scurrilous gossip!) and still we're not done: plenty more mulled wine still left to drink before 2012 is done. I also saw <i>The Hobbit</i> with the family, which has got me super-excited (yes, I'm saying 'super-excited' a lot at the moment, and it's got to stop) about the next two instalments. Presumably after that they'll have to film, ur, <i>The Silmarillion</i>?<br />
<br />
Now also might be a good time to review last year's <a href="http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2012/01/off-we-go">New Years resolutions</a>, which I've never done before but actually worked out quite well for 2012:<br />
<br />
<blockquote>I will read more books than last year, again.</blockquote>Achieved! Totally, legitimately, absolutely achieved, with no cheating of the figures or rushing at the end. In 2011 I read 22 books. In 2012, assuming I don't flake out on <i>Jane Eyre</i> at the end, it will be at least 25. Win.<br />
<br />
<blockquote>I will not keep conveniently forgetting that I'm supposed to be flat hunting.</blockquote>Also achieved! I mean, not only did I not forget, I actually went out and did it. Win x2.<br />
<br />
<blockquote>I will sign up to Code Year and learn something new.</blockquote>Mostly achieved. I definitely signed up, and kept with it throughout most of the year. And although I've dropped off a bit recently, I learnt something new <i>and</i> got the chance to put bits of it into practice at work. So I'm counting that as a win, too.<br />
<br />
Still undecided about next year. So at my current rate of blogging, you should hear about it sometime around March. Ahem.]]></description>
 <category>General</category>
<comments>http://dominicself.co.uk/blog/item/2012/12/christmas-cheer-and-2012-resolutions-update#c</comments>
 <pubDate>Mon, 17 Dec 2012 00:49:32 +0100</pubDate>
</item>
  </channel>
</rss>